Thursday, June 10, 2010

Fighting Fibromyalgia Requires a Game Plan

Dealing with fibromyalgia is easier with a game plan. Any good game plan for fighting fibromyalgia should include basic fundamentals such as attitude, daily health, medical treatment, and a reliable support system.



Fighting Fibromyalgia Fundamental 1: PMA Baby!

Attitude is everything! You can be healthy with a bad attitude and I'd feel more sorry for you than for anyone living with fibromyalgia. Living with a bad attitude is truly a horrible condition. Fighting fibromyalgia requires that you do all that's in your power to keep your attitude in check. PMA! (positive mental attitude) should be your battle cry!

Keeping a positive attitude is not always so easy when you are living with excruciating pain and fatigue day in and day out. Fighting fibromyalgia begins with your decision to fight and make your life better, and that in itself births a more positive attitude.

In fighting fibromyalgia, a positive attitude is your game face!

I've had days of pain and fatigue, years actually, and nearly lost all hope. It was at my lowest point, when I found myself in a heap of tears on my bedroom floor, that I found hope and a reason to keeping living. I had been wrapped up in thoughts that my family would be much better off with another wife and mother, but it occurred to me that I was the only wife and mother they had been given. At that point I made a decision.

They had been given a wife and mother whose days were wracked with pain and fatigue. They had been given a wife and mother who was very ill. So I decided instead of pleading for something other than what I had, I would make the most of what I was ... I would be the best sick wife and mother there could be. I embraced my condition with the thought that I would do the best I could do each and every day.

Amazingly my whole outlook changed, and it was soon after that moment that I found the medical treatment plan and daily health plan that gave me back my life and health.

Die Hard Theory

So how do you develop a positive attitude when you are in the midst of fibromyalgia symptoms?

It's probably different for each of us, but on my worst days, when I could do nothing more than sit and watch tv, I watched Die Hard movies.

Bruce Willis's character was me, and the bad guys were my fibromyalgia symptoms. No matter what the bad guys threw at Bruce's character, he dealt with it. He fought hard! And won!

My favorite Die Hard movie is Die Hard with a Vengeance. Every scene where Bruce' character fights and wins, I felt was me fighting and winning. It grew my fighting attitude and enabled me to face whatever it took in fighting fibromyalgia. I was bound to win with a positive attitude! Attitude is everything!



Fighting Fibromyalgia Fundamental 2: Common Sense Daily Health

You can search the internet for women's natural health, women's health websites, and women's health forums, but when it's all said and done, you will learn this truth: womens health and nutrition is a vital focus to maintaining a sense of health and well being.

Health is an accumulation of the results of choices we make. It's important to make sure your good choices outweigh your bad choices, especially when
fighting fibromyalgia.

It only makes sense that your daily plan should include exercise, good nutrition, drinking enough water, and getting enough rest. Read our Basic Womens Health article for more detailed information.

Combine a common sense health approach with your chosen treatment plan to strike the knock-out blow to your fibromyalgia symptoms.



Fighting Fibromyalgia Fundamental 3: Medical Treatment

The goal of any good fibromyalgia treatment plan is relief from fibromyalgia pain. There are many medical treatments available, but not all of them may be suitable for you. Each person is an individual and should be treated as such. Try to find a medical doctor who understands the unique nature of your fibromyalgia pain.

There are many more doctors now willing to address fibromyalgia as an actual medical condition than when I was being diagnosed back in 1995.

Some people support the use of pain medications which provide fibromyalgia pain relief. I personally avoided such treatments because I come from a very addictive family history, and I didn't want to have to address addiction. So my best approach to prescription fibromyalgia pain medications was to "just say no." However, these meds have been a big help to other women living with fibromyalgia and are something you should address with your own doctor.

I was fortunate to find a doctor who was willing to listen to me, and to manage my fibromyalgia through the guaifenesin treatment protocol. It not only offered me fibromylagia pain management, but also provided me hope for a complete reversal of the effects of fibromyalgia on my body and mind. I will address this treatment plan in detail on upcoming pages.

For now, it's important that you seek a medical diagnosis and a treatment plan formed for your unique situation, perhaps one skilled in chronic pain management.

How to Find a Fibromyalgia Doctor


Ask someone. Friends and family, neighbors and coworkers. This is a good place to start. They may know a doctor that they trust to help you in fighting fibromyalgia.

Call your health insurance company. They may have a list of doctors who provide fibromyalgia treatment.

Search Online. Here is a list for starters:

WebMD Physician Directory
DoctorDirectory.com
Revolution Health




Fighting Fibromyalgia Fundamental 4: A Reliable Support System

And where would any of us be without our life support systems? Family, friends, coworkers, and neighbors all contribute to the quality of our lives. It's no different when fighting fibromyalgia. We need support and lots of it!

When I was first diagnosed with fibromyalgia, I visited several online fibromyalgia support groups. Back then they ran mostly on List Serv software and operated by email. I quickly found myself bogged down by email in my inbox, which was difficult for me to
address. I had trouble keeping my house clean, and cleaning out the inbox was no different ... it seemed like a huge task. But along the way I met some people who were a great support during those initial phases.

Now the internet enables us to have fibromyalgia forums and chat rooms where you can visit at your leisure. Your inbox will stay clean and tidy because you are visiting an online site where you can browse and read and comment when you wish. Search out some of these places, and you will find people who understand your condition because they too are fighting fibromyalgia.

The fibromyalgia community is growing as more and more of the medical community recognizes fibromyalgia as a definite medical condition. Find your place in the community of friends and women living with fibromyalgia.

I will be listing fibromyalgia forums here as I find ones that I like. Currently I am visiting forums. You can submit your favorites here by adding in a comment field :)

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

What is Fibromyalgia?

In the details, it's different from experience to experience, but in general, it's horrible muscle pain and fatigue for no apparent reason.

No matter what you typed in the Google search,
No matter how you spell it,

fibromialgia, myalgia, fibromyalgia syndrome, myofascial, fibro
myalgia, fibermyalgia, fibromyalga, fiber myalgia, fibromalgia,
fibromylagia, fibromyalsia, fibrositis, fibromialga, fibermyalga,
myofacial pain syndrome, myofascial pain syndromes, fibromyositis,
fibermialga, fibromyaligia


Fibromyalgia is a pain in the butt!
and in the leg and in the back and in the neck ...
any place where muscles can hurt.

Fibromyalgia is pain and fatigue to the MAX!

Fibromyalgia is a chronic disorder involving widespread pain of muscles, tendons, and ligments. It generally involves moderate to severe fatigue. Remember grandma talking about her "rheumatism"?

Fibromyalgia as a diagnosis has a long and varied history. It predominantly affects more women than men - an estimated 80% of people living with fibromyalgia are women. It is a condition that affects every aspect of a person's life.

What is Fibromyalgia? I believe it's a thief. It steals the beauty of movement from the body ... if you let it!

I've heard it described as "rigor mortis before death." Ouch! Rigor mortis is the condition after death in the body where muscles harden and the body parts become immoveable. Well in fibromyalgia the body parts still move but that pretty well describes the pain and the feeling of
stiffened, achy muscles. There is no longer any joy in movement. Not good.

What is Fibromyalgia?I believe it's steals your sense of health and well being ... if you let it!

I've heard it described as feeling like you're always getting the flu but never get the flu. You know how you feel when you're getting the flu? Achy, stiff muscles and a feeling that things are really 'off.' Well, what if you had that feeling all the time and the flu never came? Not good.

What is Fibromyalgia? I believe it's steals your peace and rest ... if you let it!

Fatigue is a big part of fibromyalgia too. You know how you feel after a good day of hard work? It feels so good to slide between the sheets because your body and your mind are exhausted. Imagine waking up after a good night's sleep, and that's how you feel ... for no good reason. Not good.

After days and days of this, can you imagine how weary a soul can get?

What is Fibromyalgia? I believe it's a devastating condition that steals the joy from life ... if you let it!

You can stop this thief!
I have been nearly pain free since 2000. It's been a difficult journey, but I've been able to maintain my sense of health and well being. I wake most mornings feeling rested and refreshed, and I have my joy, lots of joy.

I am not really an expert on fibromyalgia. I can't explain what causes fibromyalgia or present you with a fibromyalgia cure. My focus is on LIVING WELL with fibromyalgia, and I want to share my experience with those who are still in pain.

I believe that attitude is a BIG part of a successful journey in learning to live with fibromyalgia. I've had days, days on end, where the battle was for my mind. (This link does not work yet ....)
Die Hard Theory will help prepare you to do battle against fibromyalgia.

Let's bloom!

Keep Living, Laughing & Loving ... even with Fibromyalgia

If I can do it, you can too!

I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia in 1995. Had several very tough
years of non-ending pain; however, I've been living nearly pain free
since 2000. It's been a difficult journey, but I've been able to
maintain my sense of health and well being. I wake most mornings
feeling rested and refreshed, and I have my joy, lots of joy.

I went from using a cane to prop up my upper body and being virtually non-functional with unending pain to:

  • going back to school and earning my associates degree
  • working full-time for a large corporation for over three years
  • flat-water kayaking
  • raising Nigerian Dwarf goats
  • exercising and lifting weights
  • and so much more.

So how'd I do it?
I've spent a lot of time, fatigued and in pain, resting in my recliner.

I'm not really an expert on fibro. I am an expert at NEVER GIVING
UP.


I'll share my personal journey with you. Find encouragement and
strength as you read through my story. You'll find great treatment and
motivational information along the way, shared with my own brand of
humor and compassion.


Come bloom with me!

Get ready for more!

I've been very hit or miss, mostly miss, with this blogspace, but I'm fixin' to change that :) even if no one shows up I will be putting the words out there.

Since I've recently nixed 2 of my websites, one which had the story of my journey from pain to joy in finding my way through years of chronic pain from fibromyalgia, I'm going to transfer that info here to this space as time permits. I still meet women who are living with fibromyalgia and I still reach out to them. It was helpful having the website to send them for info, but having that info here will help me in supporting and encouraging those still in pain and trying to find their way.

In the meantime, I'm starting a new life direction and you can participate in my joy and get a good read in time for Father's Day: I have begun to study LIFECOACHING with master teacher Steve Tarde. Send him an email at stevetarde@yahoo.com and mention my name and he will send you his latest ebook GIFT TO MY DAD

His book is very touching, even though it stirred up some my "father issues" ... some of you know my own dad died alcoholic in the middle of the night on a "borrowed" motorcycle a few weeks before my 9th birthday. Steve's book gives me lots to think about.

Okay, until later ... bloom!

Monday, June 7, 2010

Progress Not Perfection

Okay it's obvious from the starts and stops and minimal blogging that I've been struggling. Last post in November, wow has it been that long??? ... last post I mentioned a job that I had applied for that I really really wanted to hear back from. Never heard a word. Discouraged, I gave up on applying for jobs. Thankfully my husband and I are learning to live on 1 income and since we are very minimalist in our needs, we are making ends meet.

So in December we decided to go ahead and breed the goats for a May/June delivery, which also meant no more job searching because I'd have to be available for the goat farming chores, labor, delivery, milking, feeding babies.

At the same time, my Training Room project fizzled.

You know how they say when one door shuts another one opens. Well not always and certainly not quickly. Sometimes more than one door slams shut and it's hard not to take it personally.

All that said to say this ... life is good. As I face life with an attitude of "Okay what next?" I am finding my path and certainly continuing my journey to full bloom. More to come :)

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Time Flies

Wow ladies, TIME FLIES. My last blog was back in August. My oh my, so much has happened in the between time.

September 1 we started our first group challenge in The Training Room and finished up the 12 weeks around November 20. Truthfully we sort of fizzled out half way through the challenge but progress was made and reported. The challenge was about Balance and I know I've certainly made progress, mostly in making changes in my daily routine and in my environment.

My sister and her husband transitioned home from their 2 year stay in Hawaii. We celebrated with a nearly 2 week stay at a beautiful beach house in Sandbridge Beach, VA. Family and friends gathered to enjoy each other, the focus of the week being the retirement ceremony aboard the USS Leyte Gulf, the warship where my BIL began and ended his sea duty. What was truly meaningful is that both of my sons and my nephew were in full Navy dress blues and participated in the ceremony. My heart was so full I was leaking. :)

THEN we got home and began the renovation on my kitchen, tv room and bathroom, something I had nearly given up hope would ever happen. It's fitting that all of this is happening around the Thanksgiving holiday, because I am overwhelmed with gratitude to the ministry and labor of love that is making it all possible.

Also I began my job search once again, and found an amazing working atmosphere with an open position. I think I love this opportunity so much that I'd sweep their floors just to be a part of their team, but we shall see how it works out. With my quirky ways, love of people, love of sarcasm and great teamwork, I think I'd be an amazing fit, Hopefully they will read my resume and agree.

More blessings to come.

oh yeah, I'm still researching the possibility of quilt fabric design. Later friends!

Don't Fall Prey

-August 29, 2009

As positive as most people think I am, negativity is a big struggle for me. Negativity inside my brain where others can't see it. My DH sees it most. I can get so black and white in my thinking. "Well I failed, I must be a f@@k up!!" "I didn't get XY or Z done, so I should just throw in the towel!" I don't say these things to you ladies, but I think them to myself and sometimes my close friends and family hear them.


I have a really close friend who is going through a situation right now, beating herself up for something she thinks she didn't do well enough. Another friend told her to stop beating herself up because "beatings are unnecessary and do nothing for you other than bruise your soul" Isn't that a great comment! Wow, it really spoke to me.


I will always choose friends who will allow me the occasional negative moment, but I expect them to help turn me back around to truth.


A member of The Training Room recently shared an article which contained this statement:
"We've all had moments of being victimized by our circumstances but the people who make significant life improvements are those who refuse to fall prey to self-pity."


Self-pity may have its sights on me like a mountain lion eyeing its prey, but I don't have to become prey and let it tear me to shreds. I can take cover under the support and friendship of other strong-women and friends.